Leaving you out of email loops, formal information sharing and informal information sharing.Engaging with others in conversation, asking them questions, perhaps joking around, then being tight lipped, formal and professionally polite for appearances sake, but by no means displaying the connect-ability they have toward others, toward you. ![]() Walking into a social situation and reaching to shake another’s hand but brushing by you not giving you the same level of interaction.Not making eye contact with you in a meeting, but making eye contact with everyone else.Remember, when these ‘slight brush offs’ happen over and over again, they evolve from slight to deliberately drastic from their continual impact of isolating the target. To the degree a person is important to you, or to the degree you have expectations of that person that are not met, the more pain and rejection you will likely experience.īeing perpetually ignored is a bullying tactic and it involves what might appear as slight brush offs to the target in order for the bully to gain the upper hand. Furthermore, rejection can be either overt, with acts of aggressive bullying or passive such as ignoring a person, shunning or shaming.īeing Ignored as a Bullying Tactic: Being overlooked can feel distressing we’ve all felt this from time to time. ![]() A person can be rejected by an individual or by an entire group of people (mobbing). Social or interpersonal rejection occurs when an individual is deliberately excluded from an interpersonal or peer relationship. Now think about being ignored, left out and pushed aside…day after day…after day…after day…This repeated ignoring is one of the worst types of bullying known. Hurt, sad, puzzled, stressed… Did you think, “What’s wrong with me?” or “How come I was left out?” Or how about when you were brave enough to reach out and ask ‘why is this happening?’, and were met with a polished answer from the person that left you with more self doubt and no answers?
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